Showing posts with label Prayer. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Prayer. Show all posts

Tuesday, May 27, 2014

Creating a Summer Rhythm

by Rhett Smith

Striking a balance between being super busy and doing nothing over the summer can often be difficult for families. Hopefully in the process of communicating expectations for the family a good rhythm can unfold between busyness and rest.
Lots of kids, as well as parents, come to the end of the school year completely exhausted. Sometimes a period is needed for families to rest and rejuvenate before launching fully into busy summer mode. But the reality of family life today is often that both parents are working, and therefore kids need to move quickly from school into summer activities.
Depending on your family, you may have characteristics that help you go about finding the right rhythm. But here are a few suggestions that I have found to be helpful:

Create “White Space” – As you look at your summer calendar, make sure there are days on the calendar where there is nothing planned. There should be “white space” on those days. In our busy world, it’s important to have days where kids and parents don’t have something to do.  These days allow families to be spontaneous and creative in the absence of planned activity.  I recommending purchasing a large white board calendar if you don’t have one, or drawing a calendar on a white board. Capture

Saturday, November 9, 2013

The ancestor book and the scaffolding of a family

Re-posted by Mary Cay Kollmansperger, 11/9/2013


When we were in Utah for Spring Break last year I found a treasure. Like, a serious treasure.


It was our “Ancestor Book.” 

It is a vintage-y looking large book that my Dad bought when we were all young and that he gradually filled with stories of our ancestors.

...I had been meaning to find that big book of ours for a while…I wanted to check out some of the ancestor stories we had helped write and illustrate as a model for doing something similar in our own family.
But wow, I found so much more than ancestor stories.

All that time I thought that book was just filled with stories of those who went before us.  Little did I know it was also filled with stories of US.  What made our family run.  In that beautiful ancestor book I hit the goldmine: the whole “framework” for our family.

The scaffolding.

...As I looked through that book memories washed over me like velvet.

How incredibly grateful I am for my parents who masterminded their family to the very best of their abilities.

Friday, October 25, 2013

Six Reasons to Pray Compline With Kids

by Jeff Jackson, aka The Hiking Priest




Father Jeff Jackson of Hamilton, Ga., makes a beautiful suggestion to enhance your family's prayer life, and create peace as your children get ready for bed. Say Compline daily with your children (wish we had started this when ours were young!). 

In this recent post from his blog, he writes:
For many years, we have said nighttime prayers with our kids before bed. For much of that time, we would go around and simply give thanks to God for the day’s blessings. Like any prayer method, this form became stale after a few years. The kids would try to outdo each other in thanking God for silly things, and our two youngest, both boys, had a hard time sitting still. A few months ago, Molly and I decided we needed a change. Now that two of our kids are reading, with a third in the next year or so, it felt like the perfect time to introduce them to the ancient rite of Compline.  Full article...

Our family's favorite:

Keep Watch, Dear Lord 
from the night service of Compline, Book of Common Prayer


Keep watch, dear Lord, with those who work, or watch, or weep this night, and give your angels charge over those who sleep. Tend the sick, Lord Christ; give rest to the weary, bless the dying, soothe the suffering, pity the afflicted, shield the joyous; and all for your love's sake. Amen


Wednesday, October 16, 2013

Pray Without Ceasing!

1 Thessalonians 5:16-18
Rejoice always; pray without ceasing. In everything give thanks; for this is God's will for you in Christ Jesus.

Last Sunday we were treated to a communion hymn sung by our fabulously talented Angel Choir.  Watching them sing Rise and Shine and Give God Your Glory, Glory (the "arky song") was one of the highlights of my day.  Angel Choir days have become my favorite Sundays for more reasons than I can list. Right at the top of that list is the opportunity to witness this young group practicing what I call full-body worship! Singing, spinning, hopping, clapping, waving - every bit of that belongs in worship and in prayer! Prayer is about recognizing God's glory and giving thanks.  Watching these kids do just that was a great reminder to me that I could stand to spice things up a bit myself and think outside the box when it comes to my own prayer life.

As we think about incorporating prayer into our daily lives at home, let's look to our children more often to guide us to spontaneous joy!

For more about this, check out this recent post from Building Faith called Moment to Moment: All "for Jesus"




Friday, October 11, 2013

Praying With and For Your Children

A Blessing This Week

Hope everyone is having a terrific week!

Prayer has really been on my mind this week after our meeting - no surprise.  I thought all day Sunday about blessing my children, after our discussion.  My insecurities were taking control as I imagined the response I'd get trying to actually "bless" them - eye rolling or literally running away!

As often happens with me, God dropped an opportunity right into my lap Sunday evening with one of the boys, so I mustered my bravery and jumped on it.  I got there, despite my lack of nerve, and it went very well.  I'll be looking for more ways to offer blessings that I am comfortable with and that seem to suit the moment, rather than trying to force the issue.

So I want to challenge you all to give it a try if you haven't already.  Don't worry about what you say or how is goes - just take advantage of an opportunity that presents itself.  Here are some tips from a website called The Blessing.  I'm not sure their entire program is for me, but these guidelines were helpful.

The blessing is a life-changing gift of unconditional love and acceptance passed down from one generation to the next. Through the blessing, children (and adults) find out what it means to be highly valued and loved by someone else using five specific actions first laid out in the Bible:
  • Meaningful touch
  • A Spoken Message
  • Attaching High Value
  • Picturing a Special Future
  • An Active Commitment
We're interested to know how you all are doing - please let us know!

Wednesday, October 2, 2013


Praying With Children

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by Troy Cady
There are so many ways to pray. Why not take some time this week to talk about and model prayer with children? Here are 10 ways you could experiment with them.
1. Pray by singing.
2. Pray simply.
3. Pray short, memorized phrases.  
4. Pray with a visual focus.
5. Pray through art.
7. Go on a prayer walk.
8. Breathe.
9. Pray in silence.
10. Pray a “pretend prayer”
The main thing is: have fun and experiment. Find how your child best connects with God and encourage that any way you can. Read the full article for more information.
Posted by Mary Cay Kollmansperger, October 2, 2013

Thursday, September 26, 2013

One Minute Mindfulness Moment


I'm going to try this again - tried it in the car during a particularly stressful drive to school last week. Didn't go well. I think the dinner table is my best bet, so I am going to give it another shot :-).

http://themindfulparent.org/The_Mindful_Parent/Welcome.html